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Choosing the Right Flower Girl Dress

There is no member of the bridal party that draws more eyes than the flower girl. As she walks down the aisle, all eyes will be on this little lady as she walks with the most adorable dress on. She will be tossing pedals with the cutest little smile for all the cameras to see. Regardless if the flower girl is a niece, cousin, sister, or family friend, wearing a dress that they love will give them confidence and make them feel special. There are many factors that go into choosing the right flower girl dress, read on to find some helpful tips on how to choose something perfect.

Find Your Style and Color First

The bride, of course, has free reign over picking the flower girl dress of her choice. However, most brides make the decision to choose a dress that will tie into her wedding aesthetic. One of the more popular styles that most brides go with is a white or ivory colored frock dress that mimics her wedding dress. Another great option is choosing a flower girls dress that goes with that of the bridesmaids’ dresses. Though if you don’t have strong feelings either way, it is best to get the input of the soon-to-be flower girl herself. She is sure to love helping choose the dress she is going to wear on your big day.

She Will Grow Into It!

 When it comes to picking a flower girl dress, don’t worry about finding the perfect size. You don’t want her to wear something oversized and awkward, but you also don’t want something that is form-fitting and restrictive. Keep in mind, however, that children grow at a rapid rate. If you order a flower girl dress a year or so in advance, consider purchasing one that is one size up to account for any growth spurts.

Choose the Right Fabric

While the look of the fabric should match the aesthetics of the wedding, it should still be comfortable to wear. You always want to stay away from heavy, stiff, or itchy material. Since she will most likely be moving around a lot while wearing it, choose something that will resist any wrinkles and rips.

In the end, make sure the flower girl has fun at the wedding. This will be an exciting time for both of you and this day will be a memorable One for everyone involved, especially the flower girl. If you have searched for the perfect dress only to come up short, we here at All About the Gown by Judy, Inc. will help you find something that you will fall in love with.

Top Three Classic Dress Designs

Wedding gowns are one of the important aspects of your big day. As a bride, you and the groom are meant to be the center of attention on the day of the ceremony, and your gown is the main tool used to capture attention and tie in the overarching theme of the wedding.

The sad thing is that this important decision is a huge source of stress for brides getting ready for their big day. With all the different types of silhouettes, styles, accessory choices and more, the options can become overwhelming. That is why we have listed below the top three dress style choices so that you can have a closer look at the benefits of each dress!


One of the more regal choices, the ball gown, is a classic style of dress that has been a staple of weddings for centuries. Known most often as the “fairytale” wedding gown, this dress is flattering for all body types in design and structure.

While fabric choices and accessories vary from dress to dress, the overall structure is compiled by a tight bodice that flairs at the waistline; and there is always a full skirt that flairs around the hips. This effect gives the cupcake or ‘princess’ look to all who see it. It can be made big and voluminous or even simplistic in looks; it all boils down to your taste preferences and fabric choice.


The second of the most popular dress designs is the A-line dress. Like the ball gown, it offers a regal feel that is desired amongst brides. While the A-line does share structural similarities with the ball gown, there are distinct differences that separate these designs. For example, A-Line dresses have fitted bodices like ball gowns, as well as larger bottom portions, yet that is where the similarities generally end.

The flair at the hips is more gentle and smooth in looks; it does not add volume in the manner that traditional ball gowns do. Also, the overall shape of the gown resembles an ‘A’ rather than an upside-down cupcake look which adds volume at the bottom and slims the waistline. All in all, A-lines have a more minimalistic and elegant look than traditional ball gowns, yet both are fantastic dress choices for all body types from petite to curvy!


Now, mermaids often get confused with a very similar style of dresses like the trumpet design and the modern iteration of the mermaid – the fit-and-flair. It is true that these designs were heavily inspired by the mermaid look, but as with the A-line and ball gown, there are distinct differences which separate all of the designs. Mermaids are the known as the original ‘sexy’ wedding gown style. A more recent development within the wedding gown design world, mermaids as a design style was barely peeking out in the 1930s, but when the Hollywood glam look of the 1950s, that all changed.

Mermaid style gowns became the number one desired wedding dress by brides wanting to capture that Hollywood feel and show off their curves on their special day, and they are still one of the reigning dress types today. The classic dress is designed to hug the curves of the bride, perfecting that hour-glass look with a cinched in waist that is fitted all the way to the knees. Classic mermaids flair out for a splash of drama below the knee, while the recent developments of the trumpet and fit-and-flair find their bottom portions flaring out above the knee and below the hips.


The majority of dress styles available today found their roots in one of these three designs. You see it in the above-mentioned trumpet and fit-and-flairs in how they resemble mermaids, ball gowns, A-line, and even the modern modified A-lines. The upside to this is that these designs can simplify your dress search. When you decide on one of the three designs listed above for your wedding, you can find a dress of that style that fits your body, wedding theme, and design needs!

To Match or Not to Match?

Wedding planning would not be as enjoyable without the help from your friends, or for better terms: Bridesmaids. Brides choose their bridesmaids based on the amount of time they have known each other, the love they have for one another, and the help that they can provide in wedding planning. Bridesmaids even get to represent the wedding by promoting the color scheme and theme of the wedding by standing beside the bride. That means that bridesmaids are to wear similar dresses for aesthetic and traditional purposes.

A common debate that brides all over share is wondering whether matching is an outdated tradition or if it is a necessity? How is one to decide whether they want their childhood friend to match a newer friend that do not even know each other yet. How can a bride trust that the dresses picked out individually will not be so off that it becomes distracting to guests?

Who decides what someone else will be wearing? Here is a breakdown of the pros and cons of having your bridesmaids’ dresses match.


To Match: Imagine giving bridesmaids the liberty to choose their own dress as long as they honor the “teal” color theme, then finding a mix of blue, mint, and periwinkle dresses? That is a nightmare that no bride should encounter. Uniformity is aesthetically pleasing because it matches the centerpieces, table runners, and décor. It gives balance for photographs that the newlyweds want to enjoy for a lifetime.

Not to Match: While color matching can be aesthetically pleasing, some brides like to be creative and spontaneous with their theme choices. There are ways to not match and still look complementary to one another for balance and organization. Many brides like to have their bridesmaids match with different fabrics types. Different fabrics have different stretches and sizing. You can still honor the “teal” color theme with some dresses being lace, satin, or chiffon.


To Match: A wedding is a perfect time to honor traditions from all sides of the family. Matching dresses is a universal custom that most weddings honor. A wonderful way to recognize this is to have bridesmaids wear “something blue” with blue dresses.

Not to Match: Marriage is all about becoming one and starting a new chapter in your lives. Starting new traditions can be exciting and it could begin with the way you portray your wedding theme. Not everything has to be perfect on your wedding day. A variety of flowers for your bouquet, a mix of square and roundtables, and an elegant mix of blush-pink with mauve can make a bold and symbolic statement.


To Match: Shopping in bulk is an option that a bride can utilize when buying big quantities of the same dress. Some brides prefer to only dedicate one day to bridesmaid shopping because there is much more to do when preparing for a wedding. When the bride already has one dress picked out, all she needs to do is join her bridesmaids in the first fitting to introduce the dress to them. After all, the wedding is about the bride first so valuing her time is a must!

Not to Match: Travel time and fitting scheduling do not have to be a factor when a bridesmaid gets to choose their own dress. If the color scheme is important, it is advised to provide a color palette key to the bridesmaids for them to know where to aim in their private shopping time. The liberty to pick out a dress of choice at own times takes away the hassle for out-of-town bridesmaids to travel to the boutique at one given date.


To Match: A wedding is all about the bride and groom. They get to decide all the details about their big day, including the bridesmaid dresses. While bridesmaid input is important to make sure that they are comfortable with the decisions, a bride’s morale is the most important. Making adjustments to the wedding plan that the bride has dreamed of since she was a little girl is not a good way to start the wedding journey. It is the bridesmaids’ duty to make the bride feel special, and that includes wearing the dress that she envisioned from the start.

Not to Match: One size does not fit all, and that also applies for dress cuts and styles.  It is not fun for the bride to have to deal with complaints about mustard not being their color or that low “V” cuts are uncomfortable to wear because of chest exposure. Preference complaints are not the only reason why morale can be lowered. Some dress cuts do not fit a certain body type no matter what size they try on. Side zippers don’t work for wide waists, strapless dresses do not stay up for larger chests, and mermaid hems might not slip on for bigger hips. When bridesmaids get to choose their own dress, they can adjust to their body type and feel more comfortable representing the bride in a better mood.


Honoring traditions, making new ones, and keeping the bride and bridesmaids happy are all reasons to decide whether to have bridesmaids match or not. What is vital to remember is to follow your heart and prioritize what is the most important for a special day that no one will ever forget. There are ways to be creative and find a balance between all factors to complete a dream wedding.

How to Choose the Perfect Accessory

Congratulations, you’re engaged! You have the ring, the perfect partner, and now you’re planning the event that’ll start your future together. Weddings are a time of excitement and tradition, but what we can all agree on is that your dress is the most important part of the day!

Your dress sets the theme and tone for the entire event, tying in everything you and your partner want for your union. Yet, with so many traditions and compromises being made, your vision and ideas for your dress can get lost in the fray. Don’t let this whirlwind take away from your wedding; with the aid of cleverly placed accessories, your dress and special day will be truly yours and unique.

Within this article, you’ll see just how the smallest things like veils, gloves, earrings and even the ‘Something New, Old, Borrowed and Blue’ motifs can give your dress and overall wedding a unique and out-of-the-box touch! An accessory here and a pop of color there are all you need to make everything stand out.

What Works with Your Ideas?

Now, it is all well and good to say how a small change can revamp your wedding style, but the challenge lies in choosing the specific accessory that can trigger it. You want to make sure the accessory flows with your theme and design for the wedding, yet will still add originality to the dress.

Listed below are some perfect accessories and tips for various themes, and all of these small additions are versatile in their use! These accessories are popping up all over the bridal world right now for the coming season, ensuring that your dress and wedding have a modern flair as well.

For the Versatile Bride

Pearls. For classic elegance, while still remaining modern, there is nothing like the timeless beauty of pearls that will elevate the charm of the past. Pearls have been making a comeback in the bridal world for a couple of seasons now, and this keeps your wedding fresh while maintaining your vintage theme. Pearls are extremely flexible in how you design them. Whether as added accents on your dress or veil, or even added to your reception décor, they are guaranteed to draw attention.

Statement Jewelry. Big studs and dangly earrings are at the absolute forefront of the bridal season, and they add an unmatchable zest to your dress. The earrings can be done with feathers, lace, or even pearls to tie into your overall theme no matter what it is. Elegant vintage, country chic, and hip modern can all benefit from this accessory. The best booster of all is their overall presence as it draws attention back to the bride, maintaining that you are the focus of the dress.

Colors. White is classic and a timeless dress color, but if you want a bit more pop and modernization to your dress, bold and fun colors are in! Whether you want them in your dress or in your bouquet for a splash of color, bold primary colors like red, black, yellow, and even blue are gaining ground on the bridal gown platform. Just this season alone, black is one of the number one go-to colors for brides; the stark color makes a statement and lets brides shine amongst the shades of ivory, crème and, egg-shell.

Now, if black is too drastic a change, which we fully understand – black in a wedding is a new concept – a soft blush or rosy pink is a fabulous non-white color that is still in the ‘bridal color wheel.’ Soft blush has made appearances for the last couple of years, but this year it has finally taken a foothold in the wedding dress world. As a solid dress color or added as an accent to a belt, sash, or tool, this is guaranteed to make you the Belle of the wedding.

Last Tip: Don’t Be Afraid to Make a Statement

It is your day – don’t be afraid to make a statement, a bang, a splash – whatever word makes you smile! Be yourself, be fun, be bold, be everything you want to be. This is a chance for you to show the world everything you love in themes, dress styles and more, but it is also the first day of the rest of your life. Start it off the way you want, filled with traditions or blazing a trail in new territory.

Our last tip is to be you. So, pick that colored-dress, put on your pearls, grab those polka dot gloves and head on down the aisle.

A Style Guide for Mother of the Groom Dresses and Accessories

It goes without saying that a wedding is a huge moment for the bride and the groom, but it is also a big day for a mother as well. As part of this age-old tradition, you’re giving your son or daughter away during this special occasion.

If you are the mother of the groom, you certainly want to look and feel your best in front of all your guests. We discussed in a previous blog post some of the arrangements you will want to make when deciding upon a dress, so in this article, we’ll expand on the conversation by focusing more on the style to follow!

Dress to Complement the Groom

Contemporary mother-of-the-groom dresses are trying their best to look more glamorous than ever before and less like you’re heading out for a night on the town. However, there’s a fine line between wearing a gorgeous dress, and appearing like you want to be on that altar yourself.

That’s why you should make absolutely certain your colors match with the rest of the wedding. All the while, you should avoid wearing the same style of dress as the other ladies at the event. The whole idea is to dress to complement the groom rather than obfuscate him.

Be Less Predictable

Most mothers of the groom go with a nice dress and blazer combo as their wedding day attire, but there’s no law that you have to follow this pattern. You can try pairing a skirt or wide-leg pants with a jacket, rather than a two-piece suit.

Another good idea is to visit a tailor. After all, not every woman can grab a dress off the rack and make it look as if it was specifically made for them. Be realistic about what changes can be made; for example, you may want to buy a dress that is a little too big to start with. With a few alterations, even that average dress can become down-right fabulous!

Learn to Accessorize

If you are not particularly comfortable with your hair, go with a hat that accentuates your facial features. Be sure to look at it and take pictures of the hat from all the different angles so you know you will love the way it looks during and the years following the event. On the other hand, if you feel uncomfortable wearing one, go with a nice blow-dry or updo hairstyle instead.

The same line of thinking goes with your shoes. Don’t feel like you have to wear those five-inch stilettos – practical shoes are very much back in style. Just make sure that if you do intend to wear flats that you have broken them in the weeks leading up to the wedding. Few things are worse than spending hours dealing with sore feet.

On that same note, keep the location in mind – if the festivities are taking place on a lawn, you don’t want your shoes getting stuck in the grass! Finally, if you intend on wearing jewelry, avoid any necklaces or bracelets that make a lot of noise so as to distract the guests. Keep any ornaments simple and modest.

By taking these recommendations into consideration, you can ensure your son’s wedding day will be memorable not only for him but for you as well! While we’re here, if you have any questions or suggestions of your own regarding this topic, please leave them in the comments section below!

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